His and Her Health

I am in my early sixties, and am quite perplexed by my inablity to orgasm any other way but with a vibrator. Sex has been unfulfilling in the majority of the 35 years I have been married. I was sexually active before marriage, have had two short-lived affairs, one recently, the other 20 years ago and am concerned that I may have performance anxiety, but don't know what to do about it. I crave physical contact and sexual activity and am eager to please my partner. Am able to talk freely concerning what I like and can help direct stimulation to where the magic button is located, but feel nothing. I feel so cheated from the pleasure I am not receiving. I feel as though I am technique saavy and have recieved stimulation conducive of what should be effective, but my clitoris is not responding as it does when I am using my vibrator in private. I don't want to give up my persuit, however at times I feel as though I give more than I recieve as far as pleasure is concerned and have gone as long as six months with no sex at all. Is there anyone out there that has recieved help for similar situations as mine?

I have detailed instructions for helping with your situation in my book, The Orgasmic Diet. It's a technique involving abstaining and transitioning (and it helps to have an understanding partner). You will improve the odds of success if you also go on my diet.