His and Her Health

may not be right board, but will give it a try.

I've not had a history of UTI's, nor have I had very oral lovers, until now. My guy is VERY oral and can sometimes be 'overeager' with his finger and cause pain on my vulvua, even with gentle suggestions of 'less is more'; and I've found myself with 2 UTI's in the 3 months we've been active. One the first weekend together and then this past weekend. Can friction/irritation of the hood/vulvua cause an infection? Or is there something else maybe going on? Please understand he is not aggressive and is simply trying to make sure I achieve orgasm, which I am grateful for!

Make sure his hands and fingernails are washed ,and has he been checked for any infections?.