His and Her Health

Prior to my hysterectomy I was told things how my cervix felt different than other women and sex with me was so great.

Well, I had a hysterectomy 4 years back, I didn't know .. so I just said yes take the cervix as well.

Ladies, now it crushed me to find out men view sex with me as no longer good, but down right terrible.

No one ever wants to even have sex with me twice.I am a kinda beautiful woman with alot of self esteem and etc. Even drunk men arent interested.

I didn't even realize to a male friend with benefits finally told me it doesnt feel good. Well its terrible. I had some instinct something was wrong before this.

What do I do? What happened? My self esteem is crushed, I don't dare be intimate with anyone.

What can I ask my doctor to "fix" or change. I had a "lift" done since I had 3 kids, at the same time. That was suppose to be so sexy to have a 20 year old private area again. But Nope.

Please help this is an actual problem and I cannot find anything on this topic over the web.