His and Her Health

My wife and I have great sex but I can't hardly ever get her to orgasm during intercourse. Its usually get her cumming then jump on so I can go. But I noticed that when I am giving her oral sex and I spread the lips of her vagina apart really wide and lick her clit at the same time it drives her wild. Does this mean that if I had a larger round penis it would have the same effect during intercourse?

The size of the penis has nothing to do with her orgasm. It is the action on the clitoris.Here is a link to one of our websites with an article on how to achieve orgasm.
http://www.bermansexualhealth.com/voxant/5-tips-for-achieving-orgasm-through-intercourse.html

Thanks for the link you included in your reply. I tried one of the articles suggestions, the one where I enter her with my legs outside of hers. She said it felt good. Now the major problem I was hesitant to mention before. I am a premature ejaculator. I always have been, but I think it is getting worse the more I worry about it. I know I need to stop worrying and it would help, but I can't. I have tried the start-stop method according to a book I bought but it has not seemed to help yet. I have also tried to Trojan condoms with the desensitizing lotion in them and usually get one of two results. Either it becomes so numb I can't ejaculate at all and sometimes causes my erection to become flacid or I still come prematurely. I do not want to try the pills as I do not believe the will help. Do you or anyone have any suggestions?

I am glad the link above helped you. Now here is a link on PE(premature ejaculation). There are medications your doctor can prescribe to help. Please visit your urologist for diagnoses and treatment.
http://www.hisandherhealth.com/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/breakthrough-book-for-couples-suffering-premature-ejaculation.html

You might also take a look at some toys designed to help folks in your situation. There are cock-rings with clitoral vibrators attached, for example, that might do exactly what you need. Provided you don't mind decorating your penis like a christmas tree anyway :p

Good Luck!

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I have heard about those rings before but was skeptical. Do they work good? Do they stimulate the clitoris very well? Also, I would really like to get my PE under control before I incorporate any toys. Thanks for the info though. I read the article addressing PE. It says it is a book, but all I could find was an article describing the book and no link to the actual book. Did I miss something?

totonka, there are many thousands of men who have been helped by going to their urologist being examined and treated with medicine for PE.
I again suggest that you see a doctor.
The article I sent you to (about the book) has 4 chapters you can click on and read on line.You might want to go back there and read it.Here is the link .

http://www.hisandherhealth.com/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/breakthrough-book-for-couples-suffering-premature-ejaculation.html

I am just skeptical about the medication they might suggest to help my PE. Aren't anitdepressents usually the drug of choice for that? If so, that is something I will not take. If there is something else they might prescribe I am all ears to suggestions. I want to thank you also for all of you help thus far.

totonka, here is another link with information on a different treatment for PE.
http://www.healthfinder.gov/news/newsstory.aspx?docID=625837

I tried masturbating using a breathing and relaxation technique I read. It involved relaxing the PC muscles while taking deep breaths and holding it momentarily. It increased my time until ejaculation by 5.