His and Her Health

I'm new to this site and I'm finding it to be really wonderful. I have found a few postings about female ejaculation but I guess I really need to know that I'm not the only one. I dont always have really wet orgasms but when I do,, It's almost like someone dumped a bucket of warm water on my partner. And the first time it happend I actually thougth i had urinated on him. I wanted to die. It is seriously a large amount of wetness and sometimes if will keep coming out if we keep having sex..
Anyway,,can anyone tell me more of what the guy thinks when it happens? Is it gross to them, do they like it? For me when it happens,, that is always my biggest orgasm... I will orgasm for the entire time my parter is erect,, seriously.. I almost dont stop having the orgasm once its started. But I actually get aittle frustrated with the really wet onces because they make such a huge mess. Anyway, Is this normal for women to have these extremely wet ones or is it not very commom?
Thanks for all your input and comments

Less than ten percent of women can have them. I have them on occasion.

Make sure to empty your bladder before sex because there is no valve shutting off the bladder at time of orgasm, so whatever is in your bladder will generally come out when you ejaculate.

Men's reactions vary from revulsion to sexual obsession. Some men are REALLY into women who can do this. So it entirely depends on the man.

I have ones like you too, jasper. it's funny because i can have them pretty easily but they really don't feel all that fantastic and it is more the clitoral orgasms i crave. anyway, like you, when i have them a LOT of fluid comes out and i end up putting a towel down on the bed just to sleep. i have to wash the sheets a lot which IS a pain, but my boyfriend really likes it when i have these types of orgasms, so i guess i don't mind too much. what bothers me is he thinks that just because all that fluid comes out it MUST mean it feels really amazing for me, but it doesn't. for some reason, i just ejaculate alot.
the first time it happened i thought i peed on the guy too! but now i know what's going on. if you feel comfortable with it and your partner seems to, then by all means, enjoy! i have found that most of the men i have been with are totally turned on by it. now, if only i could be too...

There are large waterproof pads you can buy to protect your sheets.

Besides having a waterproof mattress pad, I use three large bath mats under me when we are getting it on. Very often the heat takes over and I say the heck with it and wash the sheets. But the ejaculate has no smell and does dry quickly. I saturate him and we joke about it. I wear a mini pad during the day because if he puts his arms around me I leak like a faucet.......

I wonder if all women who have this happening find that they are as sexual as I am at this age. Very seriously, I could have sex 24/7 and enjoy it...Not that I am a nymphomanic but that I just plain enjoy sex...It sure does make me feel so young....

nope...i am only 28, have explosive wet orgasms, and do not feel sexual at all. you are very, very lucky!

For those of you who are unsure, I recomend Female ejaculation for couples by Deborah Sundahl.

Its very normal don't think so much about it.I presume that you never have a problem with bladder control except when you have an orgasm.Well, when you have the orgasm, there is obviously a sudden release of chemicals in your blood which control your muscles and for some reason the ones which control the bladder are being affected.

Enjoy it - When it first happened to me - I was a little freaked out about it - then I did some research and found out it was normal!!! Welcome to the club!

Most of us men love it. I do.

Look up female ejaculation.

I love it so much that I learned to induce in my partners. I can't get enough of it.

No, it is actually the Skene's Gland...This is located in the Uretha...When I let myself go and go into deep lust, one opening closes and another one opens...Urine never escapes...I have the feeling of sexually wanting my husband all the time..Believe me, this is a good feeling..Makes me smile a lot.... Nothing like Persistant Sexual Arousal, but I can get it on just like that...I self lubricate...and I just don't know why....My mind has gotten sharper than it has ever been and sexual knowledge is there and I don't know where it came from....Before I wrote a blog on this site three years ago this Summer, I had never written in my life...After this happened I had to write of our sexual love and the wonders of who we are and again this is from the power of this instant sexual feeling that I have....I took my husband off Viagra three years ago this October, now I have given him the power of hands free sex....By building up his confidence in his sexual manlyness (Don't know if this is a word) I have made him so that he no longer needs a hand in guiding himself inside me...He is wild...Stays erect and the more I praise the more he responds..

All these things are such a mystery to me but I will say this....I would not sell what I know and have found for any amount of money....I found heaven and I wish I could teach every woman to find it too.....And it all started here....Crazy.....Take care, Caroline

Female ejaculation is entirely normal in women and nothing to be embarassed about. According to surveys, most men find female ejaculation erotic and enjoyable. Additionally, if you can relax, orgasm can be more pleasurable and intense in women that ejaculate due to the increased pressure in the urethra.